The Mayhem of May
I titled my blog "The Bright Side" because I've always believed there is positivity, something good in every moment. Our most significant challenges turn into our greatest moments of strength. These hard times become the turning points in our lives. May 2025 hit the nail on the head with this theory. I could not think of a better representation or symbol for "The Bright Side" than this past month.
I started May with one of the worst colds/sinus/allergies I've ever had in my entire life. I still don't know what illness took over my body. It was not COVID; I tested multiple times. However, I was exhausted for weeks. I had a persistent dry cough that wouldn’t stop. I missed a week of work and spent the entire weekend in bed. This illness took everything out of me. For almost three weeks, I was truly impacted by its wrath.
I missed a vendor fair. I couldn't read, write, or edit. I cried because I didn't know how I'd get through May. Everything I had hoped to accomplish wouldn't get done. I didn't have the energy for it. Slowly, I began to improve and was able to return to work. I still had to take most things slow, or I'd experience an awful coughing fit.
One day, I had the pleasure of speaking with a new mentor of mine, and she said that the illness allowed my body and mind to rest. For those of you who don't know, I recently went into overdrive. I ended a two ½ year relationship that was more toxic than good, defined Theresa E Radley as a brand, and much more. For March and most of April, I pushed myself to stay busy, stay moving, and stay working. In addition, I started having these intense breakthroughs in counseling. My soul was physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausted. That illness reminded me of the importance of rest and self-care. I had little choice but to ensure I fueled my body with nutrients and kept it hydrated. I refocused and let go of the high expectations I set for myself. Oh yeah, I got plenty of sleep.
When I got healthy again, I promised to continue working hard, but also to remember to take time for myself. I listened to two excellent books that have provided me with great clarity on various aspects of my life. "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" taught me about the importance of responsibility and directing my energy towards moments that truly matter. Additionally, I am not responsible for anyone else's reactions; I am only responsible for my own. "UnFu*k Yourself" opened my eyes to "I'm willing," "I'm grateful," and "I'm resilient" statements. Every morning, I journal and write what I am willing and grateful for. It's been such a beautiful way to start my day. I truly recommend both of these books.
I also finished the final manuscript for "Lunch Break." And let me tell you, I am so proud of myself. This story will help readers the way it did for me. Reading it through that last time encouraged me to see my growth not only as a writer but as a woman. I learned a great deal from each of these characters. I am excited to confidently promote "Lunch Book." I know it will be a story many women can relate to. 😊
The highlight of May was walking into the new independent bookstore and giving the owner three copies of "Speechless" and two copies of "This is Me" to sell. We discussed opportunities to meet other local authors. And the best news: he wants to schedule a book signing and reading for “Lunch Break.” My little heart is bursting with so much excitement.
I went into May with so much doubt and fear. I had come to the conclusion that I wasn't afraid of failing, but I was scared of succeeding. May taught me that I've failed in numerous ways, but I have also achieved goals and made my dreams come true. I am willing to let success come and no longer run from it. I'm open to new opportunities. I'm willing to believe and trust in myself. I am grateful for the hardships I faced because they led me to my successes. I am thankful for all the support I received along the way and the people who have stuck by me through the difficult times. I am grateful for my strength but also for my courage. I am grateful for all of you.
Keep striving, keep believing, and most importantly, keep taking care of yourself. 😊
